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| Tuesday, November 10th, 2009 | | 5:26 pm |
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For a little junk in your trunk
The timing of this is amazing, one because its a great way to start the day, and two because on Saturday one of my friends, in describing the proportions, weight, and padding of the body types (the ass in particular of all the body types), said "If I slap the right cheek I want the left one to shake too!" Nice to have those extra reminders that just because I see extra on me doesn't mean that all boys see it the same way. That and I love the idea of an ad saying "put on weight so you can look like a Hollywood Hearthrob!" | | Monday, November 9th, 2009 | | 10:20 pm |
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Steampunk World's Faire http://steampunkworldsfair.com/I believe the name says it all, only there's more! There is the Cup of Brown Joy Tea Party, the Lovecraft’s Revenge Murder Mystery Dinner. For performers Professor Elemental of Cup of Brown Joy fame, The Penny Dreadfuls, artists, dancers, singers, writers, and Happy Hour! Yes, that's right. Happy Hour Burlesque will be performing at the Steampunk World's Fair! Get your tickets now because the hotel is half full already! | | Sunday, November 8th, 2009 | | 10:12 am |
Cory Doctoro: Teen Sex in Fiction Sex in YA stories usually comes naturally, as the literal climax of a coming-of-age story in which the adolescent characters have undertaken a series of leaps of faiths, doing consequential things (lying, telling the truth, being noble, subverting authority, etc.) for the first time, never knowing, really knowing, what the outcome will be. These figurative losses of virginity are one of the major themes of YA novels — and one of the major themes of adolescence — so it's artistically satisfying for the figurative to become literal in the course of the book. This is a common literary and artistic technique, and it's very effective.
I admit that I remain baffled by adults who object to the sex in this book. Not because it's prudish to object, but because the off-camera sex occurs in the middle of a story that features rioting, graphic torture, and detailed instructions for successful truancy.I love Little Brother. I discovered it while processing new books at the library and put a reserve on it for as soon as it was in circulation. Since then I have my own copy which I had signed by Cory Doctoro at a convention I attended that same summer. I have to agree that the least note worthy thing in this book is the indication that sex occurred. And it is just an indication, a condom is handed, scene ends, afterward a brief thought on it. The book contains desperation, fear, and torture. The main character is water boarded at one point. I never read a whole lot of YA novels growing up. My YA novels were Anne McCaffery's Pern novels and the Star Wars canon. I almost feel that even the YA novels were sex isn't included (and it often is alluded to) there exists almost a code like in movies. Old movies made under the MPAA code had so many ways of indicating that sex had occurred, including a slap across the face and smoking cigarettes. And audiences KNEW what was indicated. I think there is some lvl of similar assumption going on between teen couples in YA books. Most kids figure out sex exists well before they are in their teens, even if the movies and TV they watch are limited. Much of what they may know may be misinformed, but they still learn that it exists. I remember 5th and 6th graders having a game of asking the younger kids at my elementary school (this happened somewhere between 1st and 4th grade, I don't remember when exactly) if they were 'virgins'. I had no clue what they were talking about, but I remember the way they said it made me reluctant to say yes or no... is sounded like it connotated something dirty. I played stupid and said that my friend's sign was Virgo, but I was a Cancer. | | 10:10 am |
| | Friday, November 6th, 2009 | | 2:44 pm |
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Performances and Planning
Ideally I'd like to start being able to do some local burlesque shows. Find some venue that will let us do a show once in awhile (well, one that will let us do it w/out breaking the bank). I know I should contact the IHEG at some point to at least see what their options are. We could do the Northampton Center for the Arts if we were a bit more cohesive as a group and could advertise well enough, then we would be able to afford it. I need to figure out the local performance halls and then who to contact about doing a show. The Flywheel might be an option as well. Places I should look into: Divas Pushkin Gallery The Flywheel Northampton Center for the Arts IHEG At least to get cost or admission split options. And dress codes. I need to figure out more. I also need to identify conventions earlier on in the game (instead of a month or two before hand remember about one and go "I wonder..."). I'm actually setting up or applying for several convention shows over the next few months, which is a double plus for me because it means I also get to go to more conventions. What is more exciting, since there is a financial investment in both costumes, travel, and if I stay overnight, housing, is that I have started to get offers to be paid to perform. It is notably easier to get paid to perform as a single performer rather than as a troupe (the amount per person will be significantly lower with a group instead of myself doing a solo). Places I have applications in for or am inquiring about some level of burlesque activity: Wicked Faire TempleCon Steampunk World Fair Arisia Places I will apply to in the near future: Nexus Faire Pi-Con Similarly to performance halls, I am dreadfully unaware of which conventions are happening when, and sometimes even mix up names. I do also realize that application/inquiry does not equal success. But the more applications the more chances there are of a show. To be honest, if things keep going this well (keep looking up really), I may be able to happily give up Rocky since I will have a outlet for performing. Also, more shows mean higher chance of finding more burlesque dancers to perform with us. | | Thursday, November 5th, 2009 | | 11:41 am |
*squee*
I am now the happy owner of 5" heeled, knee-high boots. AND THEY FIT! | | Wednesday, November 4th, 2009 | | 6:39 pm |
Maine repeals Gay Marriage
Eh. So 6 months after it was signed, Maine voters rejected a state law that would have allowed same-sex couples to wed. What annoys me so much about the article I found is that the arguments against it were mostly religious in nature or are that if it passes 'gay marriage will be taught in school.' I honestly can't say I ever recall anything about marriage being taught to me in school. What schools are they going to? And from a sex ed point of view ignoring homosexuality and safe sex practices is just stupid. Also, so much for a separation of church and state. | | 12:06 am |
Wait, I can get paid for this?
I just booked a tickle fetish video shoot for next week, and am in the process of setting up some fetish work with someone in Brooklyn (minimum 3 hours at $75/hour, plus 2 hours tickling at $50/hour). AND I got a request to do a paid burlesque performance at a convention after I replied to a casting call for convention booth girls. Not sure if they want the whole troupe or not. I'm going to have to invest in a few trinkets and such so I can get something a little more steampunk than what I own now. I'm really excited for a whole bunch of reasons. I need the money. I love performing. And I've gone through a decent length spell of not being what the photographer wants for a casting call. | | Monday, November 2nd, 2009 | | 6:03 pm |
From MIDORI'S MUSINGS NEWSLETTER November 2, 2009
Copyright 2009 by Midori: Send any replies or questions: Ask@PlanetMidori.com MIDORI'S MUSINGS NEWSLETTER November 2, 2009 = = = 1. AGE OF COMPASSION? Could we actually be entering a new era of compassion and reason? As I gaze out to a beautiful autumn day, I’m hopeful. In the last few days, two seemingly small but significant actions by the US government caught my attention. Squeezed between the endless reports on suicide bombers and the crippled economy, news came through that the Obama administration lifted the 22-year ban on HIV-positive people entering the country. Then in another quiet announcement they opened the way for battered foreign women to receive asylum. HIV Ban: In 1987, during the Reagan administration, US established a ban on HIV-positive people from entering the country and resident HIV pos foreigners being granted legal status. In the midst of the new pandemic, this was a public health policy reaction against a new disease whose transmission mysterious, and death certain, swift and miserable. This was further enforced in 1993 by Jesse Helms’ amendment, a barely veiled bigoted law riding the tide of the culture wars and feeding on irrational fears. Until a few days ago United States was one of a dozen frightened countries barring HIV pos folks – this includes tourists, those seeking life saving medical treatments, and medical researchers. The other nations are: Armenia, Brunei, Iraq, Libya, Moldova, Oman, Qatar, the Russian Federation, Saudi Arabia, South Korea and Sudan. Not exactly a line-up of countries exemplifying human rights and social development. Women and Asylum: For women escaping severe domestic abuse from countries that culturally and institutionally condoned such behavior, for the last 13 years the doors of the US were closed to them. Worse still, should a lower courts grant them asylum, that decision could be reversed and they be deported back to likely fatal consequences. Department of Homeland Security had deemed women as not part of any persecuted group under American law. This may now be changing. Underneath these previous policies lay the ugliness of sexual shame, bigotry, homophobia and sexism – all spewing forth from the cankered disease of fear and ignorance. Fear and ignorance are ancient and toxic companions of the human soul, poisoning our potential to evolve into something greater as a species. But fear and ignorance is sweet candy to those who’d like us to follow like blind sheep and control our resources. Fear and ignorance breaks us down into continual downward spiral of being less-than. To become greater-than, to find peace, fulfillment and enlightenment, we must examine our own personal fears, institutional and social fears and ward off the lazy ease of ignorance. Compassion and reason is anything but easy, but if we’re to survive, it maybe our only option. Wishing you peace and pleasure, Midori | | Saturday, October 31st, 2009 | | 6:35 pm |
Upcoming Shows: November 2009
Happy Hour will be performing in 2 shows this upcoming month! November 17th we will be at Haven's Exotic Erotic Ball doing a brief performance. I will also be running a vendor table for Oh My! with a selection of our restraints, harnesses, and variety of slappy things for sale (actual inventory so people can buy it and take it home, unlike toy parties where it is shipped out). November 21st we will be performing a full show at the Transcending Boundaries Conference in Worcester, MA. | | Friday, October 30th, 2009 | | 1:42 pm |
| | Thursday, October 29th, 2009 | | 12:04 am |
Stripping down to the Essentials
Taking it off for climate change: On a side note I do feel that "global warming" itself is a misnomer. That being said I DO believe that are significant climate changes occurring. Some of them may be natural as the climate has cycles, I do think that a pollution has contributed to harsher extremes as well as other ecological damage. I am also a fan of boobies as endorsements. Its been a long week and its only half over. This made me smile. | | Tuesday, October 20th, 2009 | | 10:44 am |
On-on Albany
Went out hashing with the Halve Meins in Albany, lots of fun. There was almost 20 of us, about 7 of which I had met before. In hashing I have found the sort of automatic acceptance I have found no where else... and if you happened to be 'freaky' enough to shock someone its almost in your favor since everyone's raunchy and off the wall. Was also nice b/c its my first time traveling to a hash, and the hare was someone who has come to one of my trails and who's been having a sort of down time lately, so was happy that we visited. I'm really glad I'm dating a hasher... it would be very hard to really make a relationship work and be really involved with hashing unless there was alot of understanding and comfort spending a lot of time apart (including w/ one traveling to places where there'd be random drunken nudity and outrageous flirtation). We're hoping to incorporate hashing into a few of our trips we may be taking (like his sister's graduation). | | Saturday, October 17th, 2009 | | 5:12 pm |
The YES dance
I feel that this has material to be added to "Dances of my Native Caucasia" Or perhaps we should add a subset of "Gayasia" since we do have "Gothasia" already. I feel that even as Eddie I'm way to straight to do this dance any justice. But seriously... fork in the garbage disposal? If I stick with Rocky I have to make someone do that for Dances. |
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